5Reasons Why Corporal Punishment Is A Terrifying Way To Raise Children (And 5 Ways It Works Better Than Punishment) -1-
Corporal punishment is a common method we use to raise poorly bred or rebellious children: about four out of five parents, mostly women, practice it, whether the mother or someone entrusted with the child's care. Some do not hesitate to slap their children, while others use everything that falls under their hands, such as using a belt.
But even if we think that in this way we bring the boy back to the straight path and that our actions are not harmful, studies have proven that they are not only harmful, but also do not work!
In this article, we will explain to you why corporal punishment may lead to the abyss, but we will also point out to you other methods that have proven successful in education!
Not only does it not work, but it also makes things worse
It is true that some children may be aggressive and that the patience of parents has its limits, but physical punishment does not lead to a result.
Research has shown that violence does not work in the long run as a way to punish a child, because he has to understand the reasons for his bad behavior. In other words, children can understand; They need an explanation in order to understand why their behavior was wrong. Violence is not a quick way to stop a boy's behavior.
It is the surest course to abuse a child who has been abused.
Research shows that most cases of abused children started by slapping or hitting the buttocks. Since corporal punishment does nothing, parents generally increase the force used each time the child does not behave properly.
Each time, they expect corporal punishment to have a lasting disciplinary effect, but it does not. As a result, they increase the use of force. And eventually, they get to abuse and harm their children in ways they never thought they could.
Violence raises an aggressive child in the future
Children who were physically abused during their childhood tend to use violence against their children and their husbands or wives as they grow up. There is a good chance that they too will become deviants in front of society. There is nothing strange about this, as the words of parents can motivate their children.
But their actions have a more important impact on them. If the father or mother slaps his son in order to solve the problem, the boy will most likely learn from this and will do it in turn.
Boys can start to suffer from depression
If your partner hits you, will you stay convinced for a long time that he loves you? This is difficult, isn't it? Know that it is the same for the boy. Young children begin to question their parents' love from the moment they are subjected to physical punishment. Since the boy's life revolves around his parents, he begins to feel that they no longer love him and suffers from depression. This therefore affects the process of the boy's integration into society and ends up in frustration.
It makes the kids really sick
As a result of his life in an atmosphere of violence, the boy lives in high levels of psychological stress that damage his immune system. Exposure to physical punishments on a regular basis has a much greater effect, because of the weak immune system, the boy becomes more susceptible to diseases. If the child is already exposed to health problems, corporal punishment does nothing but exacerbate his condition.
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