:The best and most important ways to deal with a slow child and help him speed up
there are children who are slow by nature, whether he was born like this or it is a stage he is going through, but this is part of his nature and does not indicate any behavioral problem, and in the beginning you have to make sure that your child does not have a deficiency in iron Because iron deficiency usually leads to slowness and lethargy, and sometimes it is a hidden cause that we do not notice.
Your child may need some behaviors and methods that will help get him used to speeding up his work.
1. Set your child the time needed to accomplish the required, based on his ability, and what you deem appropriate for your time.
2. From time to time, taking advantage of situations and events, instill a sense of responsibility in your child by starting to give him responsibilities that suit his abilities and provide him with some incentive if that responsibility is implemented in the required time and time and with good performance.
3. Taking into account the individual differences between him and his other brothers and peers, and the extent of each one of them’s willingness to play a certain role. What methods are appropriate to follow with a child, may not be appropriate with another child.
4. Accustom him to exercise as it is important to activate his physical, intellectual and psychological capabilities.
5. Preventing some things that slow his movement down by his advice to leave sitting at the computer while playing for long hours.
6. Accustom him to abide by religious duties, and volunteer in other duties.
7. A spirit of cooperation and participation in the accomplishment of a certain work prevails between you and him, as if you cooperate in going together to perform a task that he or his father sees activity and high determination.
8. Encourage and motivate him whenever he does something by performing a job quickly and accurately. Motivation is not limited to financial reward only or gifts, but can be in the form of a sincere smile on his face or the touch of a tender hand on his head.
9. To be in front of your children, you and your husband, by example in vigor and great and organized activity.
10. Do not focus with him on the problem he has, so that he does not get used to it, or he thinks that because of your frequent focus on it, there is no hope for treatment, so he will be in a state of frustration and despair.
11. Always and in every problem your son is exposed to, make dialogue the language of understanding between you.
12. The quiet dialogue in which motherhood's passion is mixed with concern for his interest, and make him feel that passion and this interest that you desire.
13. If you ask him for something, do not rely on the generalities that confuse your child about what you asked him, but ask him for something specific that understands what you want from him.
14. Rebuild the relationship between you and your child on the basis of love and reassurance, and make him feel safe with you by being kind to him in talking and not surprising him with a sudden question, for example, and you have to play and walk with him alone and during the walk you simplify the conversation with him and exchange jokes together.
15. Choose the best that distinguishes him and then praise him for his advantages and polite manners in front of your friends and acquaintances.
16. You have to be patient until your child gets rid of the negatives that you see in him because time is part of the treatment.
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