24Secrets To Creating A Successful Family, According To Experts
Parenting experts summarize the rules for a happy family in a few key points.
Rule #1: We are here to support each other no matter what happens
The feeling that a person truly belongs to a family is a very deep human need. The most important rule in the family is then: we all depend on each other, support each other, and provide security for each other.
In our family, everyone finds a shoulder to lean on. Everyone is allowed to fail and get back up. Make new attempts and don't give up even if you don't hit the target a few times.
Even after several days of quarrels and hardships, we kiss again in the evening.
Rule #2: We are all equal
A good family is characterized by the fact that everyone in it can live out his own desires. For example when it comes to noise or quiet.
Babies need space and time to play, unleash themselves and make noise. Parents also need to pull out a bit and be alone. In everyday life, compromises must always be found.
Parents should not use their power and superiority in a bad and authoritarian way, but they should set clear boundaries for their children when they are having fun.
Rule #3: We have to be honest with ourselves
Do you want your children to always play the role of a good boy / a good girl? Do you always want your children not to argue with their brothers? Do you always try to play the role of the happy father or do you try to play the role of the perfect mother ?
Would you refrain from rejecting any of the children's desires to be happy 24 hours a day? Please stop this!
In happy families, no one is forced to wear a mask and show themselves differently than they really are. At home, we can also act spontaneously, express ourselves openly, act badly, show our vulnerability, ask for help, and fall asleep knowing that “even if we are not perfect, we will still be loved.”
In spite of everything, everyone stays together, and nothing in the world can separate the family.
Rule #4: We should be optimistic
No problem is too big, no obstacle is too difficult to overcome and there is always a solution. When children experience these ideas early and parents are role models for their children, the family becomes a lifelong source of strength.
Most parents do this instinctively from the start, for example when they hold their child when he cries and gently rock him, or when they comfort their child when he cries.
As children grow up, they can remember the pleasant pictures themselves, which in turn will form a solid basis for making their own optimistic personality.
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