7Reasons why a baby cries and how to calm him down
Why do babies cry and how do you find out why your baby is crying? Your little one is completely dependent on you. You provide him with the food, warmth, and comfort he needs. When he cries, this is his way of communicating his needs and asking for your attention and attention.
Sometimes it's hard to know what your child wants. But as he gets older, he'll learn other ways to communicate with you. For example, his ability to make eye contact , or to make sounds and smile will improve .
In the meantime, here are some reasons why your baby is crying and techniques to help you try to calm him down.
I'm crying because I'm hungry
Hunger is the most common reason for your baby to cry, especially if he is a newborn. The younger your baby is, the more likely he is to cry because of hunger.
Your baby's small stomach cannot hold a large amount of food. So, it won't be long before he needs another feed. If you're a breastfeeding mother, offer him the breast even if it looks like you've fed him recently. This is called "feeding on demand". Your little one will tell you when he's full to let go of the breast by himself and when he seems comfortable and satisfied.
If you breastfeed your baby with formula or formula , he may not be hungry for at least two hours after his last feed. However, every day is different with babies. If your baby is not feeding regularly, he may want to drink a little more formula milk, but at frequent intervals. In this case, you can offer another feed a little earlier.
Your baby may not stop crying right away, but continue feeding if he wants to.
I'm crying because I have severe colic
If your baby cries a lot even though he is in good health, he may have colic . He may turn red, appear upset, and refuse all of your efforts to calm him. He might clench his fists, pull his knees up, or arch his back.
The exact cause of the constant crying is not clear. It is so common in infants that many experts believe that it is simply part of the normal stage of development.
While some other experts believe that severe colic is linked to abdominal problems. For example, it may be due to an allergy or an inability to digest certain substances in breast milk or formula. Or it may be associated with gas , constipation , or GERD when your baby passes milk from his mouth.
If you think your baby is crying excessively, take him to the doctor to rule out other causes. Your doctor will examine the possibility of another more serious cause of your child's discomfort.
Whatever the reason, living with a baby who is constantly crying and cannot be comforted is stressful. It is also important to take care of yourself so that you still have the patience and energy to calm your little one. These methods may help you deal with severe colic .
Remember, it's a phase and it will pass: colic tends to peak when your baby is two months old, and usually goes away when he's three to four months old.
I cry because I want someone to hold me
Your baby needs a great deal of cuddling , physical contact, and reassurance to feel comfortable. Maybe your baby is crying because he just wants you to hold him.
Rocking and singing to him while holding him close will help distract and calm him.
Try using a baby carrier that gives you the chance to keep your baby close to you for long periods of time. He will love the sound of your heartbeat, the warmth of your body and your scent.
I'm crying because I'm tired and I need a break
Your child may find it difficult to sleep, especially if he is very tired. The younger your child is, the less obvious the signs of sleep, so it may take a few weeks for you to learn to recognize these signs. Crying and whining over the slightest, aimless staring into the void, being quiet and still are just some of the ways your baby tells you he needs some sleep.
If your child gets a lot of attention from visitors, he may become hyperactive and find it difficult to sleep because he may be subjected to a lot of rocking and singing. Try taking him to a quiet room after a feed and before bed to help him relax and settle down.
I cry because I feel too cold or too hot
You can tell if your baby is feeling too cold or too hot by feeling his stomach or the back of his neck. Do not rely on touching your baby's hands and feet as an indication of the matter, because it is normal for them to feel colder than the rest of his body.
Set your baby's room temperature to around 23°C. Make him sleep on his back and his feet towards the bottom of the cradle so that he does not move under the cover and squirm down and feel very hot.
Make sure not to overdress your child so that he does not feel excessively hot . He generally only needs to wear one more layer of clothing than you are wearing to feel comfortable.
Use a light perforated sheet and blanket as bedding instead of the covers in your baby's crib or Moses baskethis own. If he's too hot, take a layer of blankets off him. If he feels cold, add another layer. And if you use a sleeping bag, make sure that it is appropriate for the season or season of the year and is the perfect size for your child.
I cry because I need a nappy change
Your child may protest if his nappy is wet or soiled. Some babies seem to mind this only if their skin becomes irritated .
Unless your little one wants you to change his nappy, it may be because of the strange feeling of cold air on his skin. After about a week, you may be professional and quick with a nappy change . Otherwise, it may help to distract your baby with a song or a toy looking at him while you change his diaper.
I cry because I don't feel well
If your baby is not well, he may cry in a tone different from his usual crying. His crying may be continuous and in a low tone, a lot of urgency, and a louder than usual voice. If your baby is used to crying, but is unusually calm, this may indicate that something is not going well.
Teething may also cause your baby to be more upset than usual. Babies are usually irritable and unsettled in the week before a new tooth appears. Learn more about the signs of teething to watch for.
No one knows your child better than you. If you feel there is a problem, trust your intuition and contact your doctor.
Call your doctor right away if your baby is crying incessantly and has a temperature of 38°C and above (if he is under three months old) or 39°C or above (if he is between three to six months old), is vomiting , or has diarrhea or constipation.
If your baby is having trouble breathing and is crying, call your doctor for advice or take him to the nearest hospital emergency department.
My baby is still crying. How do I calm him down?
As you gradually get to know your child's personality, you will know the techniques that work and work for him. If a cuddle or a feeding doesn't work, here are some suggestions that might help:
Try to find a regular rhythm
Your baby in the womb is accustomed to hearing the rhythmic rhythm of your heartbeat. So he might enjoy holding it close to you now because your heartbeat is so familiar to him.
There are other sounds that mimic what he was hearing in your womb. Your baby may fall asleep to the repetitive sound of the washing machine, vacuum cleaner, or hair dryer.
White noise may also help calm your little one. Download an app for this noise on your phone or buy a toy that makes a variety of sounds from sea or ocean waves to rain showers.
Try listening to the Qur'an, soft music, or singing to him.
Gift your child
Most babies love rocking and rocking gently. You can:
Hold your baby in your arms and walk him around.
Put him in a rocking chair.
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You can also take it for a walk by car or in its stroller for a walk outside.
Try massaging your baby or rubbing his tummy
It may help to massage your baby with baby massage oils or cream , or gently rub his back or tummy in the same clockwise motion. Ask your midwife about baby massage classes nearby.
Massaging your baby may help his digestion, and your touch will soothe and comfort him. Regular massage can help ease your baby's crying and fussiness. The best time for a massage is when you feel your baby is stable and alert. If he cries during the massage, he says he's had enough, so stop and cuddle him.
Watch the soothing baby massage video .
Try a different feeding position
Some babies cry during or after a feed. If you're a breastfeeding mother, you may find that improving the way your baby latches on helps her to feed calmly and without crying or whining. You can ask your breastfeeding specialist if your breastfeeding position is correct.
If your baby is breast- or formula-fed and has gas during feedings, try feeding him in an upside-down position . Burp him after a feed by holding him on your shoulder and gently patting or rubbing his back. If he cries right after a feed, he may still be hungry, so offer him the other breast or more formula.
Let him suck something
The need to suck may be an urgent issue for some infants. If you are a breastfeeding mother, let your little one suck on your breast for comfort. Alternatively, let him suck on a clean finger or thumb. You can also offer a pacifier if you think it will comfort him.
Give him a warm bath A warm bath may
help soothe your baby. Test your water temperature before putting it in. It should be between about 37 and 38 degrees Celsius. Unless you have a thermometer, put your elbow in the water. It should not feel hot or cold. But keep in mind that taking a bath can make babies cry more if they don't enjoy the sensation of being in the water. Over time, you will know what your child likes and dislikes.
What should I do if nothing helps?
It's normal for babies to cry, so try not to blame yourself if your baby is simply restless.
Try to keep in mind that you are not the reason your baby is crying. Sometimes it can help a lot to accept that you have a crying baby. And if you're confident that your baby's immediate needs are met and you've tried everything and been unsuccessful in calming him down, it's time to take care of yourself:
Put your baby in his crib and let him cry for a short while out of your hearing. Take a deep breath and rest for a minute or two.
If you and your child are upset and have tried everything you can, contact a friend or relative for support. Give yourself a break and let someone else take care of the baby for a while
Talk to your doctor about ways to help you deal with it before it gets out of hand. Don't let things pile up because it can make things difficult for you and your baby.
This crying may just be a passing phase. It is common and will pass. As your baby grows, he will learn new ways to communicate with you and express his needs. When that happens, you'll soon stop crying so much.
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