? How Do You Teach Your Daughter Happiness
Happiness:
I lived in a poor environment filled with many things, including sadness, joy, distress, and relief.. In this environment I grew up, so I learned that, in order to reach my goals, I must strive to achieve them even by digging the ground to reach it.. But in the midst of this struggle and jihad I forgot the moments of joy and happiness that I lived through it in my childhood, adolescence and youth.
When I gave birth to my daughters, I kept on my struggle and played the role of a mother, doing my best to be a good mother for them, but I forgot in the frenzy of motherhood the importance of making our children laugh and feel happy..One day I was reading a book and there was something stopping me in it..I felt that the words I was reading woke me up to a truth that was absent. About me..wake me up to my happy memories that have been forgotten..yes, this is a problem we all suffer from. Our happy memories hide behind our miserable memories. Although these happy memories are many in our lives, their glow disappears and only sadness and pain remain a place in our lives..in these moments I realized I do my best to raise my daughters, but I am missing the most important thing, which is to teach my daughters happiness.
It is necessary to ensure that your daughter's attitude to life is positive. It is not normal to be happy every moment of every day - there are tragic events that happen in our lives at some point - but you should instill in your daughters and children a deep sense of optimism. Teach her that she may not be able to control what happens in kindergarten or with her friends, but that she can control her reaction to what's happening.
Be the role model in shaping your daughter's mood
The expression on your face every day is automatically etched in your daughter's mind and heart. It is a mirror image of you, so you should wipe the frown off your face and try as much as you can to smile or laugh. Laugh with your daughter , tell her funny stories, and read a book of jokes or riddles together. What makes you happy makes her happy. So, lead by example of happiness and joy as much as you can and whenever you can and make sure that you share the following important components of joy:
The ability to relieve stress and psychological pressure:
Having a place dedicated to arranging all her belongings helps in this. Provide her with bookshelves and other storage areas for her toys, papers, and favorite necessities. For example, her inability to find her favorite "cover" can greatly stress a young girl. Also, teach her to relax in the warm bathtub and play with bath toys while listening to soothing music from an adjacent room.
Listening ability:
It helps to start by making time to talk. Every evening after dinner and before your little girl goes to sleep, ask her about her day, and let her talk about whatever she wants. When she refrains from talking, make her reveal the secrets of her heart.
Faith:
Your spirituality is a guiding star for her. So introduce her to her religion, involve her in prayer and supplication, and talk to her about the beliefs of the religion, while making sure that she has a strong and solid spiritual foundation.
This is how you make your daughter happy and productive. This process will be very helpful as you guide her to the next stage of her development: entering school.
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