Have You Become A Mother? 5 Tips No One Will Tell You
New mom: Learn to adapt as positively as possible
There are a few tips to try to make your transition into motherhood smoother, peaceful and wonderful, while ensuring you get the care and attention you need.
Tip 1: Build a good social network to avoid isolation
It becomes easy for you to spend long periods of time alone with the baby within the four walls of your house. It also becomes easy to deprive yourself of other possibilities in life in addition to losing your self-confidence.
Over time, social relationships will become more difficult and you will gradually lose the ability to socialize.
The best thing you can do to counter this, is to realize that you are not just stereotyped into a mother's title. That your life is not limited to your role as a mother.
You can be a mother and a woman at the same time, and you can be mature but also crazy and spontaneous with your friends.
If you distance yourself from people and stop activities that you used to enjoy, you will suffer and your mental and physical health will decline.
So surround yourself with a group of moms, family members, or like-minded people who understand what you're going through.
Have a good support team that understands the requirements of being a mother and can anticipate your needs and help you when needed.
Be it virtual or physical!
Tip 2: Set realistic expectations
It is not possible to have a flawlessly clean home and take care of a newborn at the same time.
You have to accept that now life is different!
the pace of your life, the way others see you, and the ability to carry on with your projects; All things change with the birth of a child.
Adapt to this and accept it and know that what you are going through is only a phase.
Most importantly, you should not let the pressure of others occupy a space in your mind that has a lot of things to occupy.
So lower your expectations as much as possible and everything extra is an extra plus point.
Tip 3: Trust your intuition
You are the expert in your child's affairs .
Develop your confidence in your abilities.
You are the one who spends 24 hours a day with your child. You know his crying spells, his routine, his habits, etc.
Don't let anyone tell you that they know more about your child and their relationship with him than you do.
Tip 4: Let things go - let go of control
Remember that you can't control everything, especially when it comes to a baby's needs!
Just because you want to sleep at 9:30 PM does not mean that your child will let you, and the same goes for visiting Grandma who you hope goes as well as you hoped.
These things are out of your control at this time. So accept reality, laugh and know that tomorrow will be a new day.
Tip 5: Take a moment, take a step back and believe in yourself
Every woman is different, so please don't consider yourself a failure if these tips don't work for you!
You're a fighter and I'm sure you're really doing your best.
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