What is the difference between care and education?? Very important tips and tricks
we find many parents confuse care and education, and failure to differentiate between them may expose the Muslim family to confusion and collapse due to the parents’ interest in the matter of care and they think that it is the same as education, so come
together to know the difference between them
Watching children, taking care of their feeding, clothing, making them look good, securing their home, ensuring their education and solving their duties is called care and not upbringing.
? What is education then
Education is doing five things:
First: Building Convictions:
It includes belief, principles, values, aspirations, understanding of life.
Second: Orientation of interests:
It includes what concerns a person and how he spends his free time.
Third: Skills Development:
All kinds, sports, artistic, mental, social, administrative, scientific.
Fourth: Understanding the rules of relationships:
Who do you accompany? Who do you avoid? And how to build relationships?
? And fix it or terminate it
Fifth: Choosing the role models:
They are the ideals that a person aspires to become like them, as well as understanding the laws that govern dealing with role models.
These five are called (breeding) and others are care.
Care can be delegated part of it ️ As for education, there is no delegation in it, because it is the duty of the mother and father first, and sincere educators help them in that.
How to raise children in a correct Islamic manner:
Instructions for dealing with children:
The character of boys and girls begins to appear in the second year of their birth, so it is imperative that parents begin with them to consolidate the Islamic faith and love for God Almighty and to deal with Islamic morals such as honesty, generosity, generosity, giving and helping others, provided that this is in a soft and gentle manner. If the parents use the method of violence and punishment in this, it will often lead to counterproductive results, and the excessive pampering also leads to negative results, and the best thing about that is mediation.
Cultivating love, kindness and love for all in the hearts of children through everyone’s love for them, the children need to be the place of love and compassion for others, as the child is nourished emotionally through what he finds from his mother, father and his relatives in particular, as he is physically nourished by food that develops his body and sends It has the warmth of life.
Parents should not neglect their children’s need to play, take risks and take risks, through the activities they undertake to test their abilities, gain more capabilities and life experiences, and overcome the difficulties that they may face in their lives, as some parents exaggerate in preventing their children from playing for fear of them in When this affects their awareness and learning, as one of the most important means of education is learning through play and by playing children’s abilities and knowledge develop and their perceptions open.
Noting the talents and abilities of the children, paying attention to their creativity, nurturing and developing them in what suits them, and providing the necessary for them as much as possible, as this will greatly benefit the children.
That parents realize the children’s need to provide moral security, as children realize that they always need someone who stands behind them to support them, as they feel a constant need for someone to protect and take care of them and help them in times of distress.
(Our Lord, grant us from our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an imam for the righteous )
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