Child self-confidence: very successful behaviors and directions to instill confidence and self-confidence in our children
Child self-confidence: very successful behaviors and directions to instill confidence and self-confidence in our children
Welcome to all dear visitors of my child’s world. With simple actions and ideas, you, as a mother and father, can instill confidence in your child from a young age, and this has a great impact on building his personality in all stages of his life, as a child who grows up and does not have confidence in himself and in his form generally fails in all areas of his life and this Not his fault but the fault of your upbringing. Learn about the various ideas and behaviors that make your son's self-confidence grow and develop as he grows older, because confidence generates strength. In this way, you have presented to society a strong, confident, successful and useful son, God willing
The most important ways and directions that help enhance self-confidence in our child:
1. Praise your child in front of others.
2. Don't make him criticize himself.
3. Say 'please' and 'thank you'.
4. Treat him like a child and let him live his childhood.
5. Help him make the decision himself.
6. Teach him to swim.
7. Make him the guest of honor on an occasion.
8. Ask him for his opinion, and take his opinion on a matter of things.
9. Make a corner for him in the house for his work and write his name on his achievements.
10. Help him make friendships. Kids these days don't know how to choose their friends.
11. Make him feel his importance and his place and that he has abilities that God has given him.
12. Teach him to pray with you and instill in him the principles of faith in God.
13. Teach him the skills of expressing opinion and presentation and how to speak and present what he has to people.
14. Teach him how to read and follow instructions.
15. Teach him how to set principles and duties for himself, follow them and implement them.
16. Teach him the skill of first aid.
17. Answer all his questions.
18. Keep your promise to him.
19. Teach him the skill of simple cooking, such as boiling eggs, frying potatoes, heating bread, and others.
20. He knew the power of blessing and the importance of supplication.
21. Teach him how to work on his team.
22. Encourage him to ask questions.
23. Make him feel that he has a place among his friends.
24. State the reasons for any decision you take.
25. Be on your first day of school with him.
26. Tell him stories from your childhood days.
27. Have your child play the role of the teacher and you play the role of the student.
28. Teach your child how to find him when he gets lost.
29. Teach him how to refuse and say (no) to wrong.
30. Teach him how to give and give.
31. Give him enough money to dispose of when needed.
32. Encourage him to memorize and remember.
33. Teach him how to defend himself and his body.
34. Explain to him the suspicions and doubts he asks about.
35. Don't threaten him at all.
36. Give him advance warnings.
37. Teach him how to face failure.
38. Teach him how to invest his money, even if a small amount.
39. Try something new for him and you at the same time, knowing the results in advance.
40. Teach him how to fix and arrange his things.
41. Share his dreams and ambitions and encourage him to dream bigger and aspire more.
42. His knowledge of the difference between the sexes between males and females was inspired by the verses of the Noble Qur’an.
43. Teach him sound and dignified values and principles.
44. Teach him how to take responsibility for his actions.
45. Praise his works and achievements and teach him to write them.
46. Teach him how to handle a pet.
47. Apologize to him for any obvious mistake you make.
48. Make him a day of surprises.
49. Getting used to reading the Qur'an every day.
50. Tell him that you love him and hold him to your chest, as this will instill in him confidence in himself.
It is also very important in raising a child to understand his psyche and most importantly to act on it in a proper manner so that we can contribute to building his personality and enhance his self-confidence in an optimal way so that he can defend himself by himself. It is very important to look to your child as if he is older and more mature in order to give him confidence that he is able to take responsibility, and in order for this feeling to be strengthened in him and become a behavior, for example, you must listen carefully to him as he speaks to you.
How does talking and listening to your child affect him:
It helps him feel important in his surroundings and that he is a valuable person.
It helps him build high trust and credibility between you and him and makes your relationship more cohesive.
It earns him confidence in himself and makes him express himself more in front of you in an attempt to highlight all his energies in expressing any idea that crosses his mind or any situation that occurs with him.
It increases his sense of responsibility more, and makes him aware that every age stage requires responsibility and that responsibility is not exclusive to the elderly.
It develops his brain energies and makes it work more.
His relationship with you becomes stronger and more interconnected and he wants to come back to you to consult you on everything.
And in order for him to be able to defend himself, there are some tips that we should take:
It is very important to seek to teach your child how to defend himself and his opinions and positions in a polite manner and far from stubbornness, bias and the need to accept the opinions of others.
??This is the primary goal. How can I achieve it
Not to reprimand your child if he was beaten by one of his friends and not to shout at him, but we must understand what happened and make him feel safe and that we are always by his side and will not leave him and that we will provide him with help .. We must make him feel that we are confident in him and that he is able to solve his problems by himself in an appropriate manner, but without a guide, of course .
There is no objection to teaching the child some self-defense games such as karate and taekwondo, as this would increase his self-confidence and strengthen his personality and make others look at him as strong.
We must encourage him to tell us everything that is happening with him, even if he is the weaker party, because if he hides the abuse he is being subjected to, it will make matters worse and it will become difficult later to solve the issue.
We always try to keep our child in open and exposed places, so it will be safer for him.
We must teach him to solve his small problems alone, so that he learns the art of dealing with others, negotiating and responding to aggression..But in major problems and aggression leading to adults, adults must intervene to solve these problems.
One of the ways of sound education is not to teach the child to hit back because he will become aggressive and in this case we will not be able to control him because he no longer respects any law or order, and this may be reflected in his dealings with the mother and with the brothers at home.
The most important effective tips that will enhance your child's confidence in himself and his appearance:
The child is a wonderful being and has the ability to accept all the convictions you want to instill in him, and the behaviors that you build in him in his childhood, is what helps him to increase his confidence in himself and his form and assume his responsibility to build his personality properly. It is very important that we do not interfere in every detail of our child’s life and let him make mistakes and learn that it is okay to make mistakes.
Some tips to boost your child's self-confidence:
When your child comes to you with a problem, try to establish a dialogue with him about how to find a solution to this problem, what can happen, and what obstacles he will face and you may have to help him at first, but he will master the skill, which enhances his self-confidence.
The role of the school is not limited to teaching mathematics, language or science, but rather it has a great role in refining your child’s personality and influencing the extent of his self-confidence.
Instead of telling him that everything is going to be OK, try to help him be positive and that every problem has a solution.
Discuss with your child what he wants to be when he grows up and motivate him with great ambition and that he can reach what he wants. Children who have big dreams increase their self-confidence.
Give your child part of the responsibilities of the house, such as arranging and repairing a certain thing inside the house or helping you buy the needs of the house, which makes your child feel important and valuable and enhances his self-confidence.
Teach your child to make decisions from a young age, this will enhance his confidence in himself, and this does not mean in any way that he makes big decisions, for example, let him decide what is dinner tonight or from where we shop for home according to what suits his age.
Don't comment on all of your child's behavior, but ignore some behaviors, except for self-harm.
Deal with your child calmly and patiently and do not be intolerant of him or hit him or violently, as beating is not a means of punishment, but rather breaks his personality and makes him a coward.
Encouraging your child to do many activities outside the school so that he finds an area of interest in which he is creative , which makes him proud of his talent and enhances his self-confidence, such as sports, drawing, karate, taekwondo , horse riding, design, computer programming, etc.
One study showed that a third of 13-year-old girls are not satisfied with their weight and body shape, and another study showed that 69 percent of mothers are also dissatisfied with the shape of their bodies and show it in front of children, which is reflected in children's dissatisfaction with their bodies if they gain weight .
What the child is raised on and what he observes is what is entrenched in his mind and affects the building of his personality, either it makes him accept himself and be satisfied with his body, weight and shape, or not.
So it is very important for parents to maintain a healthy body image for their child.
Here are some practices that boost children's confidence in a healthy body:
Focus on the health benefits of sports more than its role in maintaining the appearance of the body.
Doing sports with the rest of the family.
Focus on developing children's skills and personality rather than on their appearance.
Avoid judging other people's appearance.
Avoid talking in front of children about feeling guilty about eating a particular type of food.
Talking about some personalities who have value in their community in a positive way and praising them, regardless of their appearance.
Talking with the child about his importance in the family, with an indication of the family's love for him and the joy of his presence among them.
Avoid cruelty in dealing with the child.
Choosing clothes that fit the child's body, whatever its shape, and that would show him in a good image in his eyes.
Praise him in front of everyone when he puts on new clothes or when he plays sports.
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