Parents, Boys And Silent Love
Parents and Silent Love:
Another way for parents to bond with their children and show them warmth and care is one that requires no words.
Badi' is the father of an eleven-year-old boy named Sami. The father was in the kitchen preparing a snack when Sami walked in through the front door. Sami did not turn to his father and looked depressed and discouraged. When he reached the comfortable old sofa in the sitting room, he slumped on it, closed his eyes, hid his face in his arm, and let out a deep sigh.
Father put a piece of cheese on a sandwich. Something happened to his son Sami this afternoon... but what is it? Then remember. Today is the test date for the junior football teams. Sami's appearance was evidence of the result: the father knew that his son Sami put in a lot of effort in the exercises but that many talented boys participate in these experiments. The father sighed and swallowed the disappointment he felt on his son's behalf. Then he put more cheese sandwiches on the plate and carried him to the sitting room with a glass of cold lemonade.
He put the drink and the plate in front of his son without saying a word and then sat down beside him. Sami gave him a look, but he couldn't stand the sympathy he read on his father's face, so he hid his face with his arm as a tear slowly rolled down his cheek. The father extended his hand and stroked his son's forehead. He gently rubbed Sami's head and neck until his son sighed and straightened.
"I couldn't join the team, Dad," Sami said softly. They chose my companion Selim instead of me. He's good at returning balls and maybe he's better for the team than me."
Then he looked up to his father.
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Several recent films have dealt with the complex relationship between a father and his son. Look at what the following films have to say about boys and their parents: Field of Dreams, the Star Wars series, This Boy's Life, The Prince of Tides, Billy Elliot, Road to Perdition, Big Fish. What makes a relationship healthy, healthy and loving? What kind of relationship leads to distance and pain?
The ways of expressing silent love that do not require words are sometimes the most eloquent of words, especially for boys. The warm look, the gentle touch and the plate of sandwiches made Sami realize that his father understood him. Sometimes nonverbal methods of expression open the door to dialogue, understanding and problem solving. If you pay attention to your own feelings and those of your son, you will be able to find ways to build a strong bond between you that can last a lifetime.
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